This is how we do it: ‘In my 50s I want to be “monogam-ish” – to have to have my cake and eat it’

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With a 20-year age gap, Gavin and Jimmy aren’t always on the same page with their sexual needs. A little freedom to have sex with other people keeps things hot between them
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There was some sexual frustration in our early years together, and that led us to discover that we were both ethically non-monogamous