You be the judge: should my flatmate stop burning incense in our home?

Farrah thinks the aroma is calming and culturally important. Rasheeda says it’s nauseating and spoils the vibe. Who should stop kicking up a stink?

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The smell is intense, persistent and makes me nauseous. If she knows I hate it, she should stop

I open windows and don’t burn it when Rasheeda’s home. Stopping entirely isn’t a compromise